Helping successful single women own their power and not settle for less in love. This podcast is presented by the Feminine Radiance & Courage Institute covering topics like online dating, self love, modern dating culture, and busting common myths around relationships and love. Since 2005 Johnny & Lara have helped thousands of women through their deeply transformational and life-changing courses and programs, to enable them to live the life of their dreams with their soulmate by their side. For more information go to singletosoulmate.com
Episodes
Wednesday Jan 30, 2019
Wednesday Jan 30, 2019
Some women wonder - especially those who are still on the early stages of their relationship - if they’re going too fast.
In this episode we talk about:
- Changing your dating approach
- Having a decision-making framework
- Being soft on the outside and strong on the inside
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Tuesday Jan 29, 2019
Tuesday Jan 29, 2019
If you’ve seen the film Bridesmaids, you can probably see how a woman’s life can be a mess. There’s a lot of truth in the movie and a lot of nonsense too. You may be in a messy situation, but it’s up to you to take hold of the steering wheel of your life and turn things around.
In this episode we talk about:
- The movie Bridesmaid and how it’s a great example on how you can be a mess
- The important distinction in finding your soulmate
- Women struggling in their careers and having financial difficulties
- Blame and responsibility being two different things
- Taking responsibility for your life and taking responsibility to become the best version of yourself
- The idea of having it all and perfectionism
- Being a committed student of love
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Saturday Jan 26, 2019
Saturday Jan 26, 2019
In this episode, Johnny and Lara will be sharing how their client found love and what steps they took in order to get where they are now. They also talk about the importance of becoming your own soulmate first and becoming a student of love by deciding to live a Love Warrior’s life.
In this episode we talk about:
- Becoming your own soulmate first
- Investing time, energy, money and resources into becoming the best version of yourself
- What makes a healthy relationship and how to find it
- Reasons why people are having a hard time following through with their commitment
- Strong and healthy boundaries
- The key principle of becoming a Love Warrior
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Friday Jan 25, 2019
Friday Jan 25, 2019
How do you wake up in the morning? Do you immediately reach for your smartphone and check through your email then scroll over social media? If you do, you better start doing that less from now on. It’s unhealthy and can actually affect you in the long run.
In this episode, Lara shares simple yet important advice that made a huge difference in her life and how it helped her in her search for Johnny. Whether you’re in a relationship, dating, single or married, you’ll definitely find value in this episode!
In this episode we talk about:
- The different forms of pressure and noise in life
- How to lower pressure and noise
- Doing something that can help lessen pressure and noise
- Helping your kids and teaching them to be mature and responsible
- Giving back to your parents and watching your obligations
- How anything you can't function without in your life is an addiction
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Thursday Jan 24, 2019
Thursday Jan 24, 2019
You are always attracting what it is you are putting out. In this episode, Johnny answers a question from one of our dear listeners on why you keep on attracting men who are only looking for sex.
In this episode we talk about:
- Not looking to men as objects or wallets
- Raising up your “Quality Attraction Factor”
Back out a little bit and look at what you’re doing. Do the inner work and reflect. Help yourself be able to get in touch with who you are and who he is in his core.
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Wednesday Jan 23, 2019
Wednesday Jan 23, 2019
Sometimes we need to experience pain in order to move from where we currently are. Through it, we learn to muster courage and become brave.
In this episode we talk about:
- Your biggest pain in life and using them as your propellant to move forward
- How disappointments and devastations don’t define you
Pain is one of the greatest motivators of change in life. Maybe you’re feeling extremely hurt, disappointed or devastated right now. If you’re feeling down, you have to be strong and use your pain as fuel to go for your dreams and desires!
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Tuesday Jan 22, 2019
Tuesday Jan 22, 2019
Being a single woman for years, Lara kept attracting men who are emotionally unavailable to her. In today’s episode, Lara shares her thoughts and experiences on the topic of being single and available.
In this episode we talk about:
- Being single and available
- Knowing the truth and how it will set you free
- You attracting unavailable guys because you yourself are unavailable too
- Examining and observing yourself, if you’re emotionally unavailable or not
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Saturday Jan 19, 2019
Saturday Jan 19, 2019
Chemistry is very important to have in any relationship. It is that fun friend you always want to hang out with and go together with on road trips. But is chemistry always a good thing?
In this episode we talk about:
- Why chemistry shouldn’t be your main decision-making framework
- How chemistry can lead you astray and how it has lead you astray in the past
- Examples of things that can help you make better decisions
Don’t make chemistry your main focus in all your relationships. The chemistry and the sparks have to be there but it can’t be the one controlling how you’ll decide things. It can’t be your main decision-making factor.
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Friday Jan 18, 2019
Friday Jan 18, 2019
We either teach people to treat us with dignity and respect, or we don't. Nobody deserves mistreatment. But we are partly responsible for the mistreatment that we get at the hands of someone else.
In this episode we talk about:
- How to take loving responsibility
- Having a higher level of commitment to loving and valuing yourself and love
- Self-respecting behaviors
- Making clear, non-negotiable boundaries to help you have that space to attract ‘Real Love”
- How to change
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Thursday Jan 17, 2019
Thursday Jan 17, 2019
Frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed. These are the three words that best describes the feeling that leaves you no room in your life for love. If you're frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed, you're not really ready for a relationship in your life. Even if the most amazing man in the world walked into your life right now, you wouldn't have any room for him. What can you do to change this?
In this episode we talk about:
- How frazzle, overwhelm and stress is affecting you
- What you can do to reduce the frazzle and stress in your life?
- How a lot of learning becomes more of unlearning
- Connecting more with other women for healing and happiness
- Reducing frazzle, overwhelm and stress in your life
We live in a society where standards are becoming higher and expectations harder to meet. And so we focus very hard on our work.
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